So let’s just be honest for five minutes and talk. Are you in a relationship right now? If yes, ask yourself where you stood in the dating game before you met her. Was the distance between your dates stretched on a span of weeks, months or years. When you met your girl, was she the only woman you were going out with or where there others too? Answer these with complete honesty if you want to find out whether or not your girl is the “the one”.
When your relationships are spaced to far, it is inevitable for you to believe this one is supposed to last forever. So you are all for the girl you met and your last relationship ended in heartbreak 3 years ago. You date for a while and then she dumps you for somebody else.
I can’t give you like a dictionary meaning of “the one”. Everybody wants different things in a partner and a relationship. But there are people who can’t tell love from lust. Usually the ones who haven’t been with a woman in a while. Worst case scenario: you are not compatible and you end up with a messy break up and a broken heart.
I have emphasized before on the fact how important it is to have common interests with the woman you date.
This guy I know hadn’t been on a date in 2 years. When he switched jobs, he met this girl Kristin in his training class and found her very attractive. Well, they started going out to lunch together and before he knew it, he was in love with her with using dating sites like wow date.